Sunday August 17th, 2003
The Twentieth Sunday in Kingdomtide
"Knowing What To Ask"
Rev. John P. Wood

The Psalm: Psalm 14

The psalmist celebrates the immensity of God and suggests that wisdom begins when one ponders the limits of one's own understanding.

Praise the Lord! I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart, in the company of the upright, in the congregation. Great are the works of the Lord, studied by all who delight in them. Full of honor and majesty is his work, and his righteousness endures forever. He has gained renown by his wonderful deeds; the Lord is gracious and merciful. He provides food for those who fear him; he is ever mindful of his covenant. He has shown his people the power of his works, in giving them the heritage of the nations. The works of his hands are faithful and just; all his precepts are trustworthy. They are established forever and ever, to be performed with faithfulness and uprightness. He sent redemption to his people; he has commanded his covenant forever. Holy and awesome is his name. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all those who practice it have a good understanding. His praise endures forever.

The Old Testament Lesson: 1 Kings 2:10-12; 3:3-14

When Solomon succeeded David as king of Israel, he acknowledged his own inadequacies and prayed for the wisdom he needed to rule over God's chosen people.

Then David slept with his ancestors, and was buried in the city of David. The time that David reigned over Israel was forty years; he reigned seven years in Hebron, and thirty-three years in Jerusalem. So Solomon sat on the throne of his father David; and his kingdom was firmly established. Solomon loved the Lord, walking in the statutes of his father David; only, he sacrificed and offered incense at the high places. The king went to Gibeon to sacrifice there, for that was the principal high place; Solomon used to offer a thousand burnt offerings on that altar.

At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night; and God said, "Ask what I should give you." And Solomon said, "You have shown great and steadfast love to your servant my father David, because he walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart toward you; and you have kept for him this great and steadfast love, and have given him a son to sit on his throne today. And now, O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David, although I am only a little child; I do not know how to go out or come in. And your servant is in the midst of the people whom you have chosen, a great people, so numerous they cannot be numbered or counted. Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, able to discern between good and evil; for who can govern this your great people?"

It pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this. God said to him, "Because you have asked this, and have not asked for yourself long life or riches, or for the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right, I now do according to your word. Indeed I give you a wise and discerning mind; no one like you has been before you and no one like you shall arise after you. I give you also what you have not asked, both riches and honor all your life; no other king shall compare with you. If you will walk in my ways, keeping my statutes and my commandments, as your father David walked, then I will lengthen your life."

The Epistle Lesson: Ephesians 5:15-20

Perhaps written as a contrast to the bachnalian aspects of pagan worship, the author suggests that true spirituality is found in temperance of human liberties.

Be careful then how you live, not as unwise people but as wise, making the most of the time, because the days are evil. So do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. Do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery; but be filled with the Spirit, as you sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, singing and making melody to the Lord in your hearts, giving thanks to God the Father at all times and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The Gospel Lesson: John 6:51-58

The gospel also suggests that the abiding presence of Christ is found through internalizing his sacrificial lifestyle and living as he himself chose to live.

I am the living bread that came down from heaven. Whoever eats of this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh."

The Jews then disputed among themselves, saying, "How can this man give us his flesh to eat?" So Jesus said to them, "Very truly, I tell you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood have eternal life, and I will raise them up on the last day; for my flesh is true food and my blood is true drink. Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them. Just as the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so whoever eats me will live because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven, not like that which your ancestors ate, and they died. But the one who eats this bread will live forever."

"Knowing What To Ask"


"Who is wise among us?" That's the theme of our lections for today. An Afghani folktale may help to point us in the right direction. It goes as follows:

Once there were two beggars who went daily to the palace to beg at the king's gate. Every day the king gave each of them a loaf of bread. One of the beggars would always thank the king for his lavish generosity, but the other thanked God for giving the king sufficient wealth to give charity.

The second beggar's words always hurt the king, so the king decided to teach him a lesson. The king ordered his baker to bake two identical loaves, but in one he had him conceal precious jewels, and then he instructed the baker to give the loaf with the hidden jewels to the beggar who always thanked the king for his charity.

The next day the baker went to the king's gate and handed the two loaves to the beggars. He took great care not to confuse the two, for he feared the king's wrath if he should make a mistake.

When the beggar with the special loaf felt how heavy and hard it was, he concluded that it was poorly made and asked the other beggar to exchange loaves with him. The second beggar, always eager to help a friend, agreed. Then they went their separate ways.

When the second man bit into the loaf, and discovered that it was filled with jewels he thanked God for his good fortune, grateful that he would no longer have to beg for his bread.

The next morning the king was surprised to find only the first beggar at the palace gate. He had the baker brought before him and asked him, "Did you mix up the two loaves I had you bake?"

"No, your majesty," answered the baker. "I did exactly as you commanded."

Then the king turned to the beggar and asked, "What did you do with the loaf you received yesterday?"

The man replied, "It was hard and poorly baked, so I gave it to my friend in exchange for his."

Then the king understood that all his riches had indeed come from God, and that only the Holy One can make a poor man rich and a rich man poor. Not even a king can change the will of heaven.

Such is the beginning of wisdom! Every culture has its stories of those who have spent their lives trying to find "the meaning of life." Each has its own variation of the magic genie in the bottle who offers the lucky opportunist the chance for three wishes…and we've all heard the jokes about how the last wish negates the first two.

Placed in a situation where we could ask any question with the assurance of absolute honesty what would we want to know? Think how different our lives could have been if we had been given that opportunity. "Will you really stay for better or worse till death us do part?" "Do I have what it takes to be a good parent?" "Is this really my calling in life or just a career?" "How and when will I die?"

In the account of David's final days and the succession of his son Solomon to the throne we are told that Solomon had the opportunity to begin his reign by asking God for anything. Of course the challenge is in knowing what to ask.

Largely because of this Old Testament story many people have confused "asking" with prayer. It seemed to work out so well for Solomon, maybe that's what the whole experience of prayer is all about. We just have to figure out what to "ask for." But prayer is meant to be far more than simply asking God for all the things we think we want and need. God's will is not a puzzle to be solved, but a mystery to be lived into. It is an acceptance of the immensity of both the Creator and the creation, as expressed so beautifully in Psalm 111, and consequently of our lifelong dependency on God for daily discernment and discipline.

Prayer is the spiritual dialogue between the soul and God, the communication that takes place in relationship. No two human beings could have a healthy relationship if all one ever said was "I want, I need, I want, I need." The same is true of our interaction with God. Our understanding of God's will is based not on our own inquisitiveness, on our ability to ask for the right things, but on the activity of God generating power within our lives.

Effective prayer always starts in God, moves through us and then returns to God. It is NOT something we do to get God involved, it is something God does to get us involved! Maintaining that connectivity is essential, and we don't have to stretch too far in our day-to-day living to see what happens when a sudden "rolling blackout" hits and we lose our power.

As God moves us along in our journey, and we are part of the Spirit's working, our understanding of God is deepened, our love for God increases, and our relationship with God is made more complete. In other words, we begin to glimpse God's will for our lives which is the beginning of wisdom.

Most bible scholars agree that the gospel of John was reworked several times before it found its final version which was incorporated into the canon of the New Testament. Those revisions were sparked largely by the nature of the changing community that became the Church. Most of the passages regarding Jesus' teaching on "the bread" reflected an evolving understanding of the meaning of the eucharist and its importance in the life of faith.

If you were reading these passages in the original Greek you would find that there is a change in the verbs used to describe the process of consumption. In the earlier verses we've shared over the course of the past several weeks John has Jesus use the Greek word "phage" which means "eat" as in ingest and swallow. Here in these later verses the verb becomes "trogan" which is better translated as "munch" "chew" or "gnaw." It is as if Jesus is saying that as we continue to grow in our relationship with Him we have to really "get our teeth into" his life! The whole enchilada…the entire meal.

It's sort of like when believers place their primary dependency on the pastor's sermon on Sunday morning, they are shortchanging themselves,-- leaning on the wrong relationship,--eating the wrong bread. So when some disgruntled person says "I just don't feel as though I'm being fed at church…" it may be that they are trying to maintain their relationship with Christ on what the pastor says…which should be just the appetizer NOT the main course!

Our worship together should be the starting point NOT the ending. If we raise gnawing questions it's all the better. We should get something to chew on for a while until it becomes a part of who we are.

And then as Christ's representatives in the world our job together should be like those people who stand at the end of the aisles in the grocery stores offering small samples of what's on the shelves. We should learn to hold out just a little bit of what we know God has made available, fully accepting the fact that we are not privy to all the answers, but expounding upon the goodness and "nutritional" value of what we ourselves have received,---and encouraging everyone to digest this sample morsel---in the hope of their choosing to take the whole package home for themselves, so that they too can share it with others.

"Wisdom" is not an end in and of itself. "Good King Solomon," like the king in our Afghani fable forgot the source of his own power. Despite all his vaunted wisdom and fidelity to the Lord, he went on to become one of the most salacious and promiscuous kings who ever ruled Israel, having a taste for foreign gods and foreign women. We are told he had some seven hundred wives and at least three hundred concubines to be exact.

He ran the country for forty years from 962-922 BC and conducted the most ambitious building campaign in Israel's history, but he also bled his people dry with taxes in order to do it, forcibly conscripted them to serve on labor gangs and abused them whenever it served his advantage. He became such a king, not because he was wise, but because he forgot who he was dependent upon.

There was a time when he knew what to ask for…like parents at baptisms, like faithful parishoners at worship…and then he forgot that it takes more than asking once, because he thought he had it all. May we never make the same mistake.

Pastoral Prayer:

Lord God, you offer us the Wisdom of your Word, the Wisdom of your Spirit in every Eucharist. You call us to feast regularly and often at the table of Wisdom in the house of completion, your Body, the Church. We who are simple have great need of your Wisdom because our own is so incomplete and so imperfect. When we hear the call to dine at your table, to feast on your Word, to eat the bread of heaven, help us to come and join you. Even further, Lord, help us to have a holy hospitality that invites others to join us and grow in insight on the Living Bread of experience. Bless all in need this day and grant them and us your peace. Give us the gifts that will build up and benefit your Body, not so that we might have other gifts, though that would be nice, but so that we can be faithful in serving you always. We ask these things in Jesus' name. Amen.