The Twenty-Fifth Sunday in Pentecost
November 10th, 2002
"Making The Tough Choices"
Rev. John P. Wood

The Psalm : Psalm 78:1-4, 12-16

The psalmist reiterates the traditions of his culture, and the choice they have made to pass on the experiences they have had with God. Such traditions form the basis of the High Holy Day rituals, and the foundation of the teachings of Judaism.

Give ear, O my people, to my teaching; incline your ears to the words of my mouth. I will open my mouth in a parable; I will utter dark sayings from of old, things that we have heard and known, that our ancestors have told us. We will not hide them from their children; we will tell to the coming generation the glorious deeds of the Lord, and his might, and the wonders that he has done. In the sight of their ancestors he worked marvels in the land of Egypt, in the fields of Zoan. He divided the sea and let them pass through it, and made the waters stand like a heap. In the daytime he led them with a cloud, and all night long with a fiery light. He split rocks open in the wilderness, and gave them drink abundantly as from the deep. He made streams come out of the rock, and caused waters to flow down like rivers.

The Old Testament Lesson : Joshua 24:1-3a, 14-25

Having crossed over into the Promised Land, Joshua challenges the people to make a conscious choice about their loyalty to God. There is no expectation that they will choose this tradition, but the choice they make at this moment will determine their destiny.

Then Joshua gathered all the tribes of Israel to Shechem, and summoned the elders, the heads, the judges, and the officers of Israel; and they presented themselves before God. And Joshua said to all the people, "Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel: Long ago your ancestors--Terah and his sons Abraham and Nahor--lived beyond the Euphrates and served other gods. Then I took your father Abraham from beyond the River and led him through all the land of Canaan and made his offspring many. "Now therefore revere the Lord, and serve him in sincerity and in faithfulness; put away the gods that your ancestors served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord. Now if you are unwilling to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served in the region beyond the River or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord." Then the people answered, "Far be it from us that we should forsake the Lord to serve other gods; for it is the Lord our God who brought us and our ancestors up from the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery, and who did those great signs in our sight. He protected us along all the way that we went, and among all the peoples through whom we passed; and the Lord drove out before us all the peoples, the Amorites who lived in the land. Therefore we also will serve the Lord, for he is our God." But Joshua said to the people, "You cannot serve the Lord, for he is a holy God. He is a jealous God; he will not forgive your transgressions or your sins.

If you forsake the Lord and serve foreign gods, then he will turn and do you harm, and consume you, after having done you good." And the people said to Joshua, "No, we will serve the Lord!" Then Joshua said to the people, "You are witnesses against yourselves that you have chosen the Lord, to serve him." And they said, "We are witnesses." He said, "Then put away the foreign gods that are among you, and incline your hearts to the Lord, the God of Israel." The people said to Joshua, "The Lord our God we will serve, and him we will obey." So Joshua made a covenant with the people that day, and made statutes and ordinances for them at Shechem.

The Epistle Lesson: 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18

Paul offers understanding about the seemingly delayed return of the risen Christ in glory to those who have lost loved ones, or who are themselves about to die, in order that they might not lose hope. He wants them to be ready to understand difficulty.

But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died. For this we declare to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will by no means precede those who have died. For the Lord himself, with a cry of command, with the archangel's call and with the sound of God's trumpet, will descend from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up in the clouds together with them to meet the Lord in the air; and so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words.

The Gospel Lesson: Matthew 25:1-13

Jesus offers this parable about readiness and determination to complete the commitments we have made to God. While it seems to contradict our understanding of compassion and charity, the deeper truth is that some things cannot be shared.

"Then the kingdom of heaven will be like this. Ten bridesmaids took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. When the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them; but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. As the bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. But at midnight there was a shout, 'Look! Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.' Then all those bridesmaids got up and trimmed their lamps. The foolish said to the wise, 'Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.' But the wise replied, 'No! there will not be enough for you and for us; you had better go to the dealers and buy some for yourselves.' And while they went to buy it, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went with him into the wedding banquet; and the door was shut.

Later the other bridesmaids came also, saying, 'Lord, lord, open to us.' But he replied, 'Truly I tell you, I do not know you.' Keep awake therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.

"Making The Tough Choices"


"Be prepared!"…it's the Scout motto…and it seems to be very scriptural. Anyone who wants to make a good beginning must always keep their desired end in view. Over the centuries, history has proven that the greatest difference in people is in what they anticipate.

It was the writer of Proverbs 29:18 who reminded the fledgling nation of Israel that "Where there is no vision the people perish," and leaders of every kind have been trying to sell their ideas of a "vision" to a potential clientele ever since. We all make choices. Some we are more conscious of than others. For each person there also comes a day of reckoning when the sum total of our preparedness in terms of the choices we have made is called into question. Of today's Gospel lesson, Wesley said "Someday we will meet someone who cares nothing about position, riches, or glory, and then we will know just how poor we really are...just how empty our lamps have become."

What are some of the things we should be prepared for? I think scripture is clear on at least three. We should be prepared:

To be joyfully surprised…we seem to know that instinctively, but we can easily lose that knowledge somewhere along the way. Aside from meeting the dietary and nurture needs of an infant, one of the first things adults do with a baby is play the age old game of "peek-a-boo." There is nothing more delightful than to see the smile of an infant as one's face disappears and reappears behind one's own hands. What are we saying by such seemingly moronic action? That it's fun to be surprised by happiness and something we should get used to. That kind of surprised is at the heart of the psalm for this morning. It's meant to be taught from generation to generation as one of God's abiding principles.

When we no longer expect to be surprised by joy life loses much of its meaning and we find ourselves on a very different path than the one God intended for people of faith. Some would say the circumstances of a lifetime can take that choice away…but circumstances are not choices. Other choices are made based on circumstance.

A second thing we should be prepared for is to lose parts of our heart to others. While we learn early that one can never retrieve a portion of their heart once given away, we also need to know that a heart that is returned to God intact on the day of one's death is a sure sign of a wasted life. Clearly not all the choices that we make in terms of where we lose those portions of our hearts are good ones, and some would argue that we do not choose at all who we will love…it just happens. Yet we see who we will not love, who we will withhold affection and approval from...and those are the choices that bring us the most condemnation.

The reality of Christian teaching regarding the heart is that we gain the boundless heart of God, and should have no fear of giving our hearts away, since God has more than enough love to spare. But it can be a frightening prospect, and we sometimes choose to ignore that truth.

Finally we should be prepared to leave everything we have behind…which teaches us to value what is presently ours, and never take anything for granted. Imagine how different our lives could be if we were prepared to never forgot just these three choices of ideology?

This morning's Old Testament story opens at Shechem, a sacred place to the Jews. It was at Shechem that the patriarch Jacob had ordered all the "foreign gods" harbored by his household to be "put away." But that was generations ago, long before the Hebrews lost themselves into slavery or Moses led them out, and long before Joshua led them back, across the River and home. Once again Joshua is speaking to a select group of elders, heads, judges and officers of Israel. They represent the best minds and hearts of the people. And speak to them he does. At Shechem, Joshua reminds them of what had happened before, what recently, and what will happen again if they recommit themselves to the One God who saved them, the one purpose for which they live.

For God also makes choices, and those choices form the basis of Biblical reality and truth.

In the story of Joshua's challenge for example , he does not give the people a "choice" with regard to serving the God of Abraham. He knows that God chose Abraham, God chose Abraham's offspring, just as God chose Moses, and Joshua, and the slaves of the Egyptians. As such they could not say "yes" to this God; they couldn't choose God, but they could easily say "no" to the choice or decision already made. In doing so they would "choose" a reality of their own making, and a false truth that could only lead to their demise.

The decision, the option of true choice, is always God's. Our response does not make God our God; our response simply acknowledges the "choice" was already made, and gratefully receives God's choice of us.

In all fairness, we need to remember that this same God made a promise to Abraham which took a long time coming to fruition, and was actually not fulfilled until the conquest of Joshua. It's easy to understand why some people would have begun to doubt those choices.

Do you ever feel that God is taking a long time to fulfill promises? Do you ever feel those promises were forgotten? Timing is an important issue in both the gospel and the epistle for today. Matthew's community was getting frustrated with the fact that the second coming of Christ had not occurred, and some people were dying off. Paul addresses those deaths directly.

In the gospel parable, Jesus talks about a limited supply of "oil." Isn't it strange that this is still a topic that makes headlines today? The "oil" in these lamps however would have been olive oil, whose history was probably better known to the average person in Jesus' day than the history of Abraham.

The Olive was a native to Asia Minor and spread from Iran, Syria and Palestine to the rest of the Mediterranean basin 5,000 years ago. It is among the oldest known cultivated trees in the world - being grown before the written language was invented. It was being grown on Crete by 3,000 BC and may have been the source of the wealth of the Minoan kingdom. The Phoenicians spread the olive to the Mediterranean shores of Africa and Southern Europe, and the "olive culture" was spread to the early Greeks and Romans.

As the Romans extended their domain they brought the olive with them. In the past several hundred years the olive has spread to North and South America, Japan, New Zealand and Australia. In mythology, the city of Athens is named for the Goddess Athena who brought the olive to the Greeks as a gift. Zeus had promised to give Attica, the ancient name of the city to the god or goddess who made the most useful invention. Athena's gift of the olive, useful for light, heat, food, medicine and perfume was picked as a more peaceful invention than Poseidon's horse - touted as a rapid and powerful instrument of war. It is said that Athena planted the original olive tree on a rocky hill which we know today as the Acropolis, and the olive tree which grows there today is said to have come from the roots of the original tree.

Scripture is filled with references to olive oil. The Hebrew people equated it with blessings and good deeds. Countless stories are told about lamps, perfumes, and even gardens like Gethsemane or "Olive Press." It was fragile, it was valuable, and it was meant to be consumed.

Today is our final presentation in this year's Stewardship Campaign. We have used candles as symbols of three great Christian attributes, Duty, Devotion, and Distribution. Candles need wax, wick, flame, and air to do their job. To be effective they must be lit, and the reality is that they are consumed as they give themselves away. So they also need constant replacements. In all those attributes they are very much like this ancient gift of olive oil.

While the unwillingness to "share" in the parable may be troubling to some, it is also a reality that there are some things that we cannot borrow from another at the last minute to make up the difference for our own foolishness. For example: No one can train for a marathon FOR you, or get in shape FOR you physically. And no one can get in shape FOR you spiritually either. No one can forgive your enemies FOR you, or love your neighbor FOR you. If you don't do it yourself, you don't get the spiritual benefit of being prepared.

How do we prepare spiritually? Along with prayer and acts of charity, comes the distribution of our resources. These constitute Stewardship. Someone else may pay for budget items or special projects for you. But giving some of your own time, talent, and yes, even money as an act of worship, is something only YOU can do. Nobody can do it for YOU. The amount that we give does not matter, but what does matter is that what we give means something to us, and is given as an act of worship.

To be fully committed is "risky business." For to laugh is to risk appearing the fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas, your dreams, before a crowd is to risk their loss. To love is to risk not being loved in return. To live is to risk dying. To hope is to risk despair. To try is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, and is nothing. They may avoid suffering and sorrow, but they cannot learn, feel, change, grow, or live. Chained by their attitudes, they are a slave, and have forfeited their freedom. Only a person who risks is free.

Thomas Long said, "the wise ones in the church are those who are prepared for delay; who hold on to the faith deep into the night; who, even though they see no bridegroom coming, still serve and hope and pray and wait for the promised victory of God." Jesus said it best at the conclusion of Matthew 24 "But the one who endures to the end will be saved" (Matthew 24:13).

A new book entitled "The Conscious Bride" talks about how couples can easily get crazy as they prepare for "the big day." It then goes on to say that couples need to realize that what they are preparing for is the MARRIAGE not the wedding. Like so many of us, it may be that the foolish maidens were simply focused on the moment and not on what they were committing themselves to. Like our baptisms, and our confirmations, and our pledges of loyalty…without the work of justice and mercy, love and compassion? Not the right time, too busy, don't have enough money,…like a screen door on a submarine or a lamp without oil.

Think about it!

A Different Type Of Pastoral Prayer:

Heavenly Father, Parent of us all,

Help us remember our calling at all times and in all places.

Help us remember that the senseless individual who cut us off in traffic last night may well have been a single mother who worked nine hours that day and was rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry, and spend a few precious moments with her children.

Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, and disinterested young man who couldn't make change correctly at the checkout counter may well be a worried nineteen year old college student balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester, and his worries over whether he will be going off to war anyway.

Remind us too that the scary looking individual, begging for money in the same spot every day, who we think really should get a job, may be a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.

That the elderly couple walking so annoyingly slow through the grocery store aisles and blocking our shopping progress maybe savoring this very moment, knowing that based on test results they have received in the past few weeks that this is some semblance or normalcy they can still hold onto for as long as they have.

Remind each of us, each and every day that of all the gifts you have entrusted into our keeping the greatest gift of all is the ability to love. Teach us that it is not enough to share that love with only those we hold dear, but to all of humanity. May we be slow to judgment, and quick to forgiveness, abounding in patience, empathy, and love. For we ask these blessing not only for ourselves, but for all your children, in Jesus' holy name.

Amen