The Fourth Sunday After The Epiphany
January 28th, 2001
"The Other Side Of Love"
Rev. John P. Wood

The Psalm: Psalm 71:1-6

In you, O Lord, I take refuge; let me never be put to shame. In your righteousness deliver me and rescue me; incline your ear to me and save me. Be to me a rock of refuge, a strong fortress, to save me, for you are my rock and my fortress. Rescue me, O my God, from the hand of the wicked, from the grasp of the unjust and cruel. For you, O Lord, are my hope, my trust, O Lord, from my youth. Upon you I have leaned from my birth; it was you who took me from my mother's womb. My praise is continually of you.

The Old Testament Lesson: Jeremiah 1:4-10

Now the word of the Lord came to me saying, "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations." Then I said, "Ah, Lord God! Truly I do not know how to speak, for I am only a boy." But the Lord said to me, "Do not say, 'I am only a boy'; for you shall go to all to whom I send you, and you shall speak whatever I command you, Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, says the Lord." Then the Lord put out his hand and touched my mouth; and the Lord said to me, "Now I have put my words in your mouth. See, today I appoint you over nations and over kingdoms, to pluck up and to pull down, to destroy and to overthrow, to build and to plant."

The Epistle Lesson: 1 Corinthians 13:1-13

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.

The Gospel Lesson: Luke 4:21-30

Then he began to say to them, "Today this scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing." All spoke well of him and were amazed at the gracious words that came from his mouth. They said, "Is not this Joseph's son?" He said to them, "Doubtless you will quote to me this proverb, 'Doctor, cure yourself!' And you will say, 'Do here also in your hometown the things that we have heard you did at Capernaum.'" And he said, "Truly I tell you, no prophet is accepted in the prophet's hometown. But the truth is, there were many widows in Israel in the time of Elijah, when the heaven was shut up three years and six months, and there was a severe famine over all the land; yet Elijah was sent to none of them except to a widow at Zarephath in Sidon. There were also many lepers in Israel in the time of the prophet Elisha, and none of them was cleansed except Naaman the Syrian."

When they heard this, all in the synagogue were filled with rage. They got up, drove him out of the town, and led him to the brow of the hill on which their town was built, so that they might hurl him off the cliff. But he passed through the midst of them and went on his way.

"The Other Side Of Love"


"Come as you are, but don’t leave as you came."
--that is a saying chiseled over the front door of a chapel in Scotland.


We would do well to have that saying chiseled on our hearts each time we approach holy scripture or attempt to worship.

Change is unavoidable but not always willingly embraced. You clean a house so that it is spic and span, but the dust returns even to the rooms we do not enter. You look at photographs of yourself from five, ten or fifteen years ago and try to pretend that you haven’t changed all that much, but you know that isn’t true. We look around the room for faces that are no longer there, and see the new ones of people who we still haven’t gotten to know despite the fact that they have been here now for three years. There are new stores, with new products, and the movers and shakers continue to come and go as quickly as the advertisements.

We are all changing, some for the better and some for the worse.

Today we address issues of "calling," what it means to be commissioned by God for a particular task. Not long ago the subject came up in an adult education meeting that we hear a lot about "call" within the church, but never really go into any depth of explanation about what that means. Not all of us will go into ordained ministry, though we are all "called" or directed by God to minister for Christ in the world today. In terms of the continuing "signs" of Christ’s epiphany among us this fourth one would be the recognition of and response to the inner voice that guides and challenges us each day to change in accordance to what is best for the Kingdom of God. To "change" in other words in accordance with God’s plan for us.

Our story as "God’s people" begins with an affirmation that we have been important to God from the moment of our conception. We find it in both the psalm and the lesson from Jeremiah where words like "from my mother’s womb," and "before I formed you" directly imply a foreknowledge and purpose for our existence.

There is within the Judeo-Christian understanding a purpose for life that goes beyond personal choice; one that has been ordained by a higher power than we can ever contradict. If one believes that God has some desire to involve us in the work of creation then it seems reasonable to say that our greatest task in life, our reason for being if you will, is to come to an understanding of that purpose. Augustine said, "That I must speak, this I know. But how and when, and to whom?"

Where do we begin to explore the reason for our being?

Mother Teresa, in A Simple Path, (Ballantine Books, 1995, p. 99) wrote: "We must grow in love and to do this we must go on loving and giving until it hurts---the way Jesus did. Do ordinary things with extraordinary love…..You must give what will cost you something. This, then, is giving not just what you can live without but what you can't live without or don't want to live without, something you really like. Then your gift becomes a sacrifice, which will have value before God."

One does not grow by remaining within the comfort levels we have established for ourselves. If it is easy then change will not happen, but the kind of love or sacrifice described above will change us in ways that are not always comfortable.

Last week we ended our Gospel lesson with Jesus having closed the scroll and taken his seat after reading a passage from Isaiah about the year of Jubilee, the restoration of all good things to God’s chosen people. And all spoke well of him. Today’s gospel repeats those final verses and then has Jesus expand on those ideas to include blessings to outsiders as well. He shares "the other side of God’s love", and it is too much for his orthodox audience to endure.

The focus of the passage is not upon the potential beneficiaries of God's grace in Christ, but upon the potential losers. Where lies the danger for us? We know that it is never easy to stand up for what is right and truthful, but avoiding it is to sacrifice our connection with the ministries of peace and justice so central to the message of Jesus of Nazareth.

We too often err on missing the truth all together, not because it isn’t spoken, but because we choose not to hear it by focusing on something more relevant to our own way of thinking.

What sort of sermon would you have to preach in order for your parishioners to have the rage to want to kill you? What do you have to do to so offend them?

Tony Campolo, a former professor and good friend of mine like to tell this story which I think is a very good illustration of who we miss the point. A preacher got up to preach and said "My sermon today is about the problem of world hunger and why it continues. It has 3 points."

It was obvious from the approving nods throughout the congregation that this was a subject they found acceptable and not too threatening. After all world hunger is an important problem and something we should focus our attention on from time to time. He then continued:

"Point #1 - 55 million people in our world today are suffering from starvation. 1 million will die of starvation, many during the very preaching of this sermon. "

Again, approving nods and even some attempt at compassionate facial expressions.

"Point #2 - Most of you don't give a s***." With the use of that offensive expletive jaws were clearly dropping throughout the congregation.

Without skipping a beat, he continued: "Point #3 - You are now more concerned that your pastor said 's***' than you are about the 1 million people who will die today."

The pastor then closed his noted, turned, and took his seat. Before the organist could even begin to play the final hymn, some people walked out saying "I don’t need to come to church to hear language like that!"

Everyone was still pondering whether they had heard correctly or not, and it was clearly the topic of conversation in the parking lot following the service. Some were so incensed they went home and actually wrote their bishop for the first time, complaining about the appointment process and the person who had the nerve to occupy their pulpit. Other withdrew their financial support, and some their membership. For months and years to come some still referred to it as the "most divisive moment" in their church’s history.

But…if you asked them "What did you ever do about world hunger?", they would have said " About what?…Oh, world hunger….well, nothing. We were so preoccupied, and that really didn’t effect us very much did it?"

Consider too the fate of Paul’s words in our Epistle lesson today. The 13th chapter of First Corinthians has become an almost universal choice as a reading for weddings, as if these words were meant to convey the depth of commitment to be found in the most intimate covenant of marriage. We hear them as pretty, tender, and an almost prayerful wish for the happy couple who are embarking on a new chapter in their lives.

But these words were not written to a couple, they were written to a congregation, and not even a happy, warm fuzzy congregation, but a more typical dysfunctional one. In fact these words were written in response to sexual immorality, indifference to the needs of the poor, arrogance on the part of the educated and titled, and as an address to the gross misconduct in the celebration of the Lord’s supper involving drunkenness and greed. One can be fairly sure that many who really heard those words were incensed at being criticized, and may have missed the challenge to pursue the more excellent way of love altogether.

Scripture has a critical function for us at times. We must listen to it whether we like it or not. We cannot get by in the Church if we discount the word of God by calling it relative or outdated. To ignore the scripture is to open the gate to blessing the values and prejudices that are purchased wholesale from the merchants of a secular culture. And that only leads us to the kind of spiritual, emotional and physical violence we see around us everywhere in the world today!

It is good to hear about the things we are doing right. It is equally important to hear the other side. To evaluate our ministry on the basis of "Where are the converts? Where are the people whose lives have been claimed as servants for the Kingdom? Who has been called to pastor? To teach?" These things are far more important than how much money came in the collection, or how many cars were in the parking lot.

It has been suggested that in the more typical worship setting this story in the synagogue at Nazareth might have ended very differently. Perhaps something like: "All the people in the synagogue sat silently as they heard this and stirred not at all. Then they got up at the end of the service and passed by him, shaking his hand and saying, "Nice sermon, Rabbi," and "Wonderful sermon, Rabbi," and "You are quite an accomplished speaker, Rabbi" and "So good you could be with us this morning, Rabbi" and "You must come again sometime, Rabbi"; and from thence they hurried to the parking lot and on to the restaurants at which they ate after the service, thus they walked right through Jesus and went on their way, untouched by him.

Jesus was driven by their response to run by himself to the brow of the hill on which the town was built, where he briefly considered throwing himself down from the cliff, wondering "Does anybody really listen? Does anyone really care?"

May we hear and respond in accordance with the true challenges of God, no matter which side they place us on, for clearly that is where our authority is to be found.


The Pastoral Prayer:

Holy Friend, we give thanks for those open hearted people who are channels of your love in our personal pilgrimage. For those who gave us birth, and in the weakness of infancy nurtured and treasured us, sheltered and guided us.. Thanks for friends who bear our faults and affirm our strengths, and the those both young and old who share our tears and laughter. For those who at every stage teach us trust by trusting us, who enable us to love others because we have first been loved. Thank you, loving Friend, for people of daring faith who stretch our understanding and enlarge our capacity believe. For those who gladly include us, and especially those choice souls who taught us warmly love you rather than being afraid of you. God of welcoming love, for the knowledge that we are yours and that the best is yet to come, we praise your holy Name.