The very first thing that struck me about this morning's gospel lesson was it's use of the
word "stress," which I have always regarded as a more contemporary condition. After all "stress"
is about deadlines, downsizing, interest rates, failing relationships, and poor conditions in our schools. It has
nothing to do with those simpler times of Biblical stories, and absolutely nothing to do with Jesus. After all,
faith is supposed to be one of our chief defenses against stress isn't it? If we have enough faith we can see through
all of this temporary stuff and stand firm and strong on our convictions. And who would have more faith than Jesus?
So how can Jesus possibly be feeling "stress"?
Truth is "stress" is not a new word at all. The actual translation means something akin to pressing the
hands against the ears as hard as one possibly can in an attempt to blot out the sounds of the outside world. No
matter how successful that attempt might be the end result is that the pressure of the hands also hurts. It produces
this pointless throbbing that the ancients called "stress."
One of the things that will bring it on most quickly is the desire to hold onto everything. Life is a series of
lessons about letting go and most of us have a very hard time learning them. Psychologists tell us that babies
are born into this world truly believing in their own omnipotence. They believe that they are not only one with
their mothers, but with the universe itself. They believe that sun rises and sets for their own pleasure as do
those who care for them. The dawning realization that they/we will not always be picked up every time we cry, or
fed every time we think we are hungry is disturbing not only because it threatens our understanding of the purposeof
life, but also because it proves that there are "others" out there besides ourselves. And that creates
division in our perfect world!
Division continues throughout life as we make choices. Clearly it was a reality for those of the Jewish faith who
were choosing to follow a messiah whose ideas and opinions were if not radical at least potentially dangerous.
All the choices we have been considering in the last few weeks of gospel readings are filled with potential dangers:
the conflict or division within one's own self to do what comes to us as humans, ie preparing for the future, hoarding
away that which will make life easier, maybe even being selfish, choosing what comes next. Such decisions are always
in potential conflict with what God in Christ calls us to do.
No one can have it both ways; we were never meant to have it all. Hence the ability to decide, or choose. A great
truth of life has always been that stress increases when we vacillate or fail to make a decision. Unfortunately
no matter how nice, warm and fuzzy it might be otherwise, we cannot in the words of Rodney King, just "all
get along," primarily because we hold such strong convictions. Think of the Arab/Israeli conflict, the current
debate over stem cell research, the issue of condom use among young teens, the stance of the Boy Scouts, the right
to life vs. the right to choose, and on and on and on.
This is the first time in the history of the world when kids no longer need authority figures to get information.
They can find out anything they want, and more on the family computer. It's the first time in the history of the
world when from 5-7 generations can be found living side by side. It's the first time in the history of the world
when virtually everyone can have the same, simultaneous experience via cable television (ie. Princess Diana's funeral).
In so many ways it has become a smaller world with a starker contrast in terms of the variety of opinions. The
world as we knew it has died, and a new world is being born. Choices have to be made. What will we do, church?
Well we could start by speaking the truth, but first we will have to accept the fact that nothing causes as much
division as the truth. In 12-step work there is a saying that "the truth might set you free but first it's
guaranteed that it will make you miserable."
I think of the example of the couple who were puzzling over a road atlas trying desperately to get to New Orleans,
but couldn't find the right interstate. After being told at a truck stop that they were three hundred and twenty
miles from where they needed to be because they were reading the map wrong, they threw up their hands in desperation,
exchanged angry words, kept rotating the atlas to six different angles, after which the previous driver threw the
keys at the other. Then they stormed off to their car and headed out again in the wrong direction.
If the church really wants to figure out how to minister to people - some of whom are homosexual and some heterosexual,
most of whom are addicted to something they choose not to see while waving the various flags of their own recovery,
speaking always about the comfort of community but terrified of revealing their own fears, they must first accept
the fact that they are all sinners, and that all of these conditions are part of the same family.
I think of that in terms of some of the families that I have counseled. One of the basic maxims of counseling is,
"the problem is never the problem." A family comes in thinking that Johnny is the problem, but the problem
is the relationship between the parents, or between them and their parents, or something that goes back two, three,
or more generations. It's always easier to blame Johnny than to fix the real problem.
The answer Jesus gives is death, ultimate destruction of the divisions. He knows that his death has the potential
to erase the divisions that we have created - between us and each other, between us and God, but he also knows
that not everyone will want to accept that truth.
In the same manner the dysfunctional family, like the dysfunctional church needs to put to death the system they
have used, and on which they have come to depend. It is a system which may well be holding the dysfunctional family
together - but it must be destroyed if that family is to be reborn and healed.
It is a leap of faith to hope for a healing that is not obvious. What makes it all the more frightening is the
unspoken concern most people would have as to "which side is most likely to win"?
The truth is we can always see everything from both sides; but unless we do we can never discover how the central
point is always the same issue. For example: there are two views of justice being expressed in the Psalm and the
Old Testament lesson. While both use the same imagery, the psalmist writes from the perspective of Israel asking
why God has forsaken them. The prophet writes from the perspective of those who have been treated unjustly by those
empowered, seeing the same abandonment as an act of vindication by God.
The issue doesn't change…the focus does. We are so intent on focusing on all the wrong things. We know all this
useless information, and we pride ourselves on knowing things that really don't matter. Jesus talks about our ability
to predict something as complicated as the weather, yet when it comes down to living out the abundant life we have
been given, we are lost. And while weather prediction may be a highly sophisticated and highly volatile science,
it is also the thing we talk about most easily when in reality we have absolutely nothing else to say. "Nice
day were having don't you think?" "Gee, we could sure use some rain."
That is where we are now. We don't want to look at the real issues, because it will reflect our own incompleteness
back to us. We need to put to death those ways of dealing with each other that are not the Gospel. To put to death
the old Adam in us that only wants to get our own way. To put to death those things that do not express God's loving
intention for life. We will have to take a leap of faith, and of hope in Christ, and his power to reconcile, heal
and open the way to new beginnings.
We will have to choose; to decide once and for all! And then and only then can we be made strong and whole.
Earlier in this century the theologian Teilhard de Chardin, wrote: "Some day, after we have mastered the winds,
the waves, the tides and gravity we shall harness the energies of love. Then for the second time in the history
of the world humanity will have discovered fire."
May that day come soon!
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